It’s been a rough ass week. Let’s talk about it.

Monday started out okay. Nothing too crazy happened. Work was fine. It was actually a really great day for nothing exciting happening. By the end of the day I started to feel rough. I’ve been sick on and off for what feels like 20 years but that’s another story.

Tuesday is where the nightmare started. I found out my father in law was rushed back to the hospital in the morning. He had surgery in November and got a bad infection that put him in a hospital/rehab for 3 weeks. Things were going well until Tuesday. He was talking incoherently, staring into the distance….nothing good.

We actually finally were able to visit him today. I brought him a book, The Leviathan by Paul Stack. He loves history and I’m a librarian so I figured a Civil War steam boat espionage book?! Why not! He looked a lot better. The man is about to turn 80. And I know he is determined to get the hell out of there. Bill Jacobs is his own man. Haha.

Well then I got into a huge argument with my family over my father’s upcoming 70th birthday. I have 4 sisters. 2 older and 2 younger. The younger ones have had stability most of their lives the older ones not so much. The young ones don’t realize that we can’t all drop everything and just show up to an event with a week heads up. We have work. We work weekends. At this time in life, we are all struggling to get by and need to work. If you had told me a month ago yall wanted to do something, sure. So when the baby sister told me I could take “omit” myself. I told her to fuck herself in the family chat. Her and I will never see eye to eye. There are things I will never forgive her for. And she gets away with murder. Fuck that noise.

I’m not going to go into any more than that because I’m already starting to piss myself off. But between Nick’s dad, my family, and being sick…it was a nightmare week.

The weekend has been better. I played outside with my doggos. One loves tito catch…the other stares at squirrels in the trees. Visited my father in law and made sure he was okay. Checked in with my mother in law to make sure she was dealing with things okay. Came home and made dinner with my husband and now I’m reading a book to wind down.

Have a fabulous weekend. Dont stand for bullshit. Stay amazing. ✌️❤️